Actively cheating, threatening to kill her , scaring her into leaving and then committing suicide while she's otp is so abusive and the ultimate manipulation.
I’m annoyed this wasn’t mentioned in the video, it’s only showing her in a bad light. But I just saw the threatening stories he left on IG. He originally wanted to do take her out and himself. When he couldn’t get her, he chose to do that to himself while she was on the phone. That’s evil af
for the ones who bashing her, he had this girl hopping state to state bc he was trying to k!ll her, just the day before he did what he did to himself she ran away from him barefooted to LA, he was trying to kill her and couldn’t get to her so he did it to himself over the phone bc he knew that would eat her alive, that girl stuck with a lifetime of pain feeling like it’s her fault already and y’all bashing her? y’all don’t even know what’s going on that’s y y’all needa watch what y’all say.
And believe a nigga will move you out of state to kill you. My ex threatened me with this so many times bc I found out he was gay and had a baby on me to try and cover it up to his family. He would joking say sometimes too he would take me outta town and to a lot and feed me out of an incubator…
People focus more on the outside but not the inside of a person that’s why it’s so many suicides. A lot of people going through mental illness and using social media etc to fill a void for the time being. We need to talk about our problems but we get judged so often as males and females on this earth
*Please stop blaming this woman for his suicide.* He took his life because he was clinically depressed. It is not rational to take your life because your relationship did not last. Please don’t push this woman into the same depression that we’ve lost him from already. Praying that Amber is mentally okay, whether she made mistakes in that relationship or not. *Remember it is not our place to judge, we don’t know these people and have no clue what they went through. We only see youtube, which is not real life.* God bless 💕
It’s crazy how if she stayed and he killed them both like he threatened to, people would say it’s her fault for not leaving; but when he threatens her and she leaves, then she’s everything but a child of God🙄 Praying for his family as well as her mental health 🙏🏽🕊️
So sad. One thing that I have learned thru all my years is that things do get better. It just takes time, most of the time-but it gets better, and easier. RIP 🥀🕊️
His eyes tell a story that it was way MORE than just HER...may he Rest in Paradise 😢💔🙏🏽❤️🕊🕊🕊 However, young love is both exciting and painful as you navigate life....I wish he would have held on to see how much better life would have become for him....😢😢😊😊❤❤❤
The way y’all are blaming this girl is disgraceful! YOU are responsible for YOU! No one can make you do anything. You choose what you crash out behind.
Exactly! He chose that for himself and I’m glad he couldn’t get to her. We are responsible for our own mental health. I have a 21 yr old son that’s in the army we deal with the same mental illness so I’m constantly checking on him I hate when ppl feel like they can’t make a permanent decision for other ppl.
Social media played a huge role in their relationship. That Little fame she had with him you can tell it went straight to her head and she became dominant over him but see yall women Don't look at the mental aspect of that. What she said about them working better as friends on a live video was disrespectful and it was the beginning of the end for them. I'm just pointing out her red flags because yall women like to stick by each other without holding any accountability.
@@tsade6119people who are emotionally attached don’t really know any better if they never had guidance on relationships. Everyone on here don’t know buddy whole background to say what he could’ve done because what he had going on with himself was deeper than that relationship.
I don’t like how ppl are wrongfully blaming this girl for his mental health issues. I never heard of either of them but the narrative being pushed is wrong. None of us are obligated to be with anyone who no longer serves a purpose. That girl did nothing wrong, not even in these clips, if she wasn’t happy with him she just wasn’t, we don’t know the ins & outs. Life goes on, heart break happens to us all & we don’t jump off the deep end. I once had an ex who would threaten S every time I wanted to leave. I felt responsible for him so I stayed even though I wasn’t happy. I should’ve left the 1st time & if he went through with his threats, that’s on him not me. Not saying I didn’t care but Im entitled to be happy too. There was something deeper going on with this guy & it’s not her fault. I pray she doesn’t hold any guilt. May he finally RIP
Remember this kid man It's crazy, We gotta learn there's a difference between perception and reality A lot of these kids need guidance someone to show them and talk to them about things when stuff gets hard, Condolences to his family and friends Start loving yourself put God first stop trying to please others and understand what self-love is🕊️💔
Prayers and Love to the young lady Amber she's left with heartache and trauma for the rest of life, I would like to ask u guys stop bashing this young lady it's already hard that she's gotta deal with this now U got people being mean and crazy towards her like it's her fault Please I ask y'all to pray for this young lady Amber H God Bless u love Ask God to give you the strength and get u through this🙏🏿🫶🏿 P.S. Better Days to come 💕
Tbh, I been struggling with depression my whole life. And now I'm dealing with the worse break up of 20 yrs. Everyday I contemplate on deleting myself 😢. Its not easy when the memories fry your brain. I just pray I remain strong and make it through this.
Can I tell you something.. that pain do be real, and the memories can be painful. But baby they did you a favor!! You might can’t see it now, but when we pray 🙏🏽 ain’t no telling how them blessings form. Meaning you live and learn.. You gotta learn you.. ❤ you got this.. ask God for peace, read psalms 🎉
Exactly. Doesn’t look like it was reciprocated. She probably was scared he’d leave her earlier in the relationship and made it a strategy to talk to him a certain way to “keep him humbled”. But with him already dealing with mental health issues, she might have created a monster she couldn’t handle.
So true and we've seen her type. She didn't have a filter with matters of the heart. She emasculated him and didn't appear to like him, let alone love him. In spite of that, she is not to blame for his decision. He looked sad in every video. Hopefully, others struggling with those thoughts will stop suffering in silence and seek help.
Lucas had BPD and Amber is what is called the favorite person. You can look up how the relationship between a person with BPD and their favorite person can often have extremely horrible endings. The person with BPD can genuinely believe that they literally cannot live without their favorite person. I hope that Lucas rests in peace and I’m wishing lots of healing to Amber and his family.
This is why I’m raising my sons in the word & in church! This generation is so lost ! Turn to God when you feel NUMB! He’s the way , not unaliving yourself! That’s the trick of the enemy to gain your soul …..not worth it. RIP to him , Idk who he is but I’ve been seeing his face & story everywhere. 🙏🏽
This don’t make a difference people turn to God everyday and their cry’s are unheard pray until they hoarse and nothing changes believing in God is not a cure for everything if that’s the case there would not be any problems in this world at all
@@Britany_Monroe if your that grown then act your age, your right he just passed so why do you think it’s okay to come at his ex girlfriend who expressed how he cheated on her & was a controlling narcissist everyday for 8 years you also teared down her looks but called him a cutie. Depression doesn’t care if your cute or not it will take you regardless
@@Britany_Monroegirl do you not know he was abusive? Throwing rocks at her car cheating on her the whole time a nigga that’s a cutie like you said is rarely faithful
@@Naeyolagirl stfu that girl is chattin I’m every live and video she was the controlling one and Narcissist usually try to make play the victim role . She was the one doing to much in every video poking her butt out talking nasty just doing unnecessary shit that boy was laid back and always look sad you just sound dumb nobody gaf about that bitch she was for the money and it’s not hard to see
This generation needs true leadership and guidance… stay off the World Wide Web and get themselves right with self and god ❤ When your young & trying to keep up this website image equates to unnecessary toxicity…. Just be yourself I see so many of these incidents with these young people. Not a good look at all…
My daughter is 16 with no social media I refuse to let her be dumb and let the internet lower her self esteem if she doesn’t have certain things if she does have social media it’s hidden
@mybopdiff3rent This mf from a country they can't get no internet....And their just running their mouth asl as you raise them right nothing can get in their way. Try teaching discipline it goes a very long way.
I don't trust anyone who talks with their hands. I despise it!! The breakup may have been the final straw but the sadness in his eyes shows his struggle with mental health. Very sad.
@@missdeeMUA1 Ma ' I think we can definitely say no. I'm in the industry & I hate to say it she was getting passed about like the magazine black tail ' in the county jail. No self respect ' & there were plenty of beautiful & classy girls' who wanted him.❤❤ sending love & healing to his family. My brother went the same way ' another 🌟🌟🌟 in Jesus's arms❤
@@tabathajohnson8888 I'm speaking on having went through depression off and on for several years. I promise having at least one person or thing around to keep me going really helps. I would just hope that she was there for him considering it was said that he was struggling mentally already
Look at bro eyes and how he sounds ... It's sad someone can be In your face sleep in your bed and don't even care to realize the pain you going thru sick
And she is just yapping like a guppy while he's obviously going through something. You can clearly see it. I think it's that "we work better as friends"😢 is what got him.
I watched this video two days ago & felt for him, but after learning more abt him threatening to unalive her & himself at the same time. & then doing it to himself while they were on the phone together I take my feeling back. He was toxic too & this video made it seem like he was a victim. He’s horrible too
She gave bugga suga n-e ways. I just wish he was strong enough to realize its more love out there beyond loving someone so strong. U will find love again. I wish he knew he deserved much better. This is sad.
FACTS! SOMETIMES IT'S WHEN THEY MOVE ON... SHE COULD STILL BE TALKING TO HIM WHILE WITH THE NEW DUDE... PEEP HER ATTITUDE... RUN FROM A WOMAN THAT SHOWED THOSE SIGNS... THEY WILL LEAVE
She was very dismissive of what he had to say and often talked over him or brushed whatever he said off as if she didnt want to hear it. I've dealt w women like this and what I can say the best thing he could've done was to leave her alone early, she didn't respect him. And as men we pride ourselves a lot on how much and who gives us respect.
I get you might not know of them like that but this was done in poor taste by the underlying insinuating she led him to do it by mistreating him/not being invested. Amber and Lucas were VERY toxic. I had to unfollow Amber years ago because she became extremely bitter and all her content was about Lucas cheating on her and girls playing with her about it. THAT’S what you are REALLY seeing! A scorned woman! They’ve been off and on for a while. Neither one had friends like that, they lived together and always in each other’s face. It’s unfortunate Lucas did that and I really hate that he did but the break up was needed. It should’ve been happened. I hate this for them and I could not imagine how she feels because atp.. she did not do anything wrong by attempting to break up for good. Lucas decision was his decision and his alone because he for sure played apart in their separation. RIP to him and prayers for his family and Amber ❤
I feel the same exact way. This video was done in very poor taste and extremely disrespectful while misleading the viewers. If you push out content, you need to research the story you're reporting on. The majority of these comments blamed this young lady for his actions because she chose to walk away from a toxic situation.
The Most High is near the broken hearted! So many people are fighting mental health issues please don't add to it. Lift them don't dismiss them. Amber seems to like playing with his feelings and embarrassing him online. You can tell he really loved her. Rest in paradise Lucas Coly 😢 My condolences to his family and may she have the strength to endure his S after there separation 🙏🏼😇❤
Dittoooo!!! Truth be told she wasn’t even all that at least not compared to him… and that’s coming from someone who’s a whole lesbian. You can tell he poured so much into her and their relationship while she seemed extremely callous, nonchalant and apathetic 🤷🏽♀️😢
@@Kayla_Kizzlenot your grown ass blaming her because he's fine...no normal functioning person would kill themselves... U shoulda been there so he could take u with him. Thirsting over an abusive man is insane 😂😂😂😂 you fckn females bro
Naw I'm not gonn lie, I've been hurt so bad ,heartbroken where I didn't wanna live, BUT I'd NEVER take my life. The pain is bad but mannn this is so sad.R.i.p 🕊
We are all made up differently. Some people’s pain starts from childhood and accumulates with each hurtful experience. Every experience with pain adds to the last and they cannot find happiness outside the sorrow no matter how much or how hard they try. I am so sorry for this young man and pray he is now at peace. 🕊️
True, i had alot happen to me as a kid growin up in multiple foster homes, i coulda took myself too, but the lord say when your parents abandon you he will take you up and God done bless me with much and he also took away and its only by christ im alive today praise god
That’s wrong to put that on her. We don’t know what other problems this man was going through and how y’all know putting stories out like this won’t affect her mental health and have her do something?? Then ppl leaving nasty comments about her like they know them and they relationship. Y’all wrong asf and ignorant asf in these comments
RUclips and all these “guidelines” is truly starting to sicken me…drag queens and 🌈 activity directed at children is Aokay but reporting on a story and just using words to describe what happened is a strike-able offense…you can’t even say 🩸 or show it but you can talk about alleged “gender affirming care for children” all day everyday with no consequences…
@@Anointed4Dis shows what direction this administration is trying to push America in they’re feminizing us making us so soft and acting like we should care about EVERYONES feelings while our adversaries are raising warriors who could care less about our feelings…🤦🏽♂️ if this generation isn’t saved the next generation of America will be destroyed by our adversaries that this administration seems to support from Iran to China
@@jeanasmith6283he’s a grown ass man if she so called treated him like shit he could’ve BEEN left they been together forever, she ain’t holding no gun to his head to make him stay you sound STUPID
Really how so? What videos of there’s you watched and saw that. Why has making statements and don’t know what tf you’re talking about become so popular. Also you zesty titry boys need to man up too damn emotional. Where yo daddy. Took his light you sound sweet af. My son caught his girl getting smashed. Simply left and don’t look back. I told him he don’t see but that 304 did him a favor.Year later prettier girl she has her own everything two jobs baby on the way. Helped him when the union went on strike . He a prize . But we taught him . that . And his parents should have too✌🏾
She’s so annoying she acted like she run the relationship you can tell him his eyes he was going through a lot she only cared about herself he actually wanted real love it’s so sad mental health is something we have to talk about more RIP💔💔💔💔
@@Peach-e5dThe way she treated him? They treated each other terribly and he was known to cheat on her often. The relationship was toxic on both sides but y’all are only blaming her why?
I’m not trying to even be rude but, your girl was giving straight up annoying vibes, like an unhappy child that can’t be pleased. Fellas please leave these chicks alone when they’re all about the internet and followers. This is getting ridiculous out here 💯 RIP young brother but you went out sad because life is unfair but it’s precious 💯
You know what’s sad. The majority of male suicide is due to a love lost. Or relationship issues. The other very small portion is money issues. 9times out of 10 if a man does that it’s over a female. How unfortunate when there are so many beautiful women in this world that would love him. How unfortunate to make such a permanent decision over a temporary issue. May he rest in peace…. How sad.
Young people breaking up do hurt when you are young , but I promise you that it’s not the end of the World. Somebody better will come along and you forget about the person who broke your heart existed!!! In life you have to get hurt and go through stressful things to built your character . Please do not crash out of ANYONE EVER! This is so sad😢
Lucas literally displays how pretty privilege isn’t everything. Pretty people have struggles too. Stop feeling like looking good makes your life perfect, it doesn’t.
All she saw was dolla signs and he was looking for love. This is truly sad this young man had so much more life to live. & she’s probably laid up with the next ninja right now😩 rest easy young man🤍🕊️🤍 & condolences to the family 🙏🏾
She was around him just for the money, she basically said that every time she opened her mouth, she took over all the vidoes and stuff they did. I'm sorry Lucas couldn't see this, but the next n1NJah she be laid up with is gonna dog tf outta her. It's karma.
Yall dudes be so unhinged like she wasn’t with him for a reason but I guess it would be better to you if he unalived both of them… BLK men are draining blame women for everything I’m happy she is free from this guy who couldn’t let go
Sad story. Dillyn troy talked to him the night before and Lucas had explained how his girl cheated. Was talking with dillyn this morning and he’s also heartbroken. I have a few unreleased tracks from Lucas and dillyn that we worked on last few years. Lucas was definitely a talent that will be missed 🕊️🕊️🕊️
I can absolutely say love hurts. I once laid in my bed 4 days straight without eating or getting out of bed other than to take a tinkle. I remember feeling like I wish to never wake up....i got better. That was almost 10 years ago. I never let my heart get that bad over anyone anymore. Work on your self love everyday people and no one can hurt you. Rest in Peace to this handsome young man that shouldve been a star❤
@@KayTalkNYC and your commenting on something I said on the internet that I didn’t address you in but yet your talking and addressing me like you know them I’m pretty sure you don’t so your doing the same thing I am (voicing your opinion)so you make it make since to me?!?!!?
@@yawngaming4188 I didn’t comment or address them like I know them. I said they’ve been together for 8yrs and that’s a fact not an opinion. You on the other made an entire analysis of her and her emotions (with no evidence) like you know her when you don’t. Nice try but we’re not doing the same thing.
This video hit so close to home I couldn't even finish it.😢😢😢 Young Men, know your worth. Please don't let these versions of women trick you off ya game. If you already got mental health issues, know/learn your triggers & set boundaries and let them be known. Love you first. Its easy for me (a boy mom) to say at 49, but its never too late to say it.
Didn’t mention any of the abuse he put her through, we need to stop painting people who died with just their best and be honesty so the people who are around aren’t blamed for how they reacted to their own actions. It’s absolutely unhinged to cheat on someone for years, put your hands on them, verbally abuse them,threaten to self delete if they leave you, and then when they finally pick themselves after giving you their entire 20s in a stagnant abusive relationship you actually follow through on your threats. Amber looks like the bad guy but if you actually watch their lives you can tell she was hanging onto something that died a long time ago, he even admits himself he has anger issues in one of his last TikTok’s. Being outwardly attractive can only help you so much, when you’re dealing with demons an average layman can’t remove them. You need serious help or you’ll just bring everyone else down with you
That’s what those men do from that demographic… he can abuse you for as long as he wants and you can’t leave or he’s gonna unalive himself 😂 ummm do it sir … tf I look like a punching bag or else 🤡🤷🏾♀️🤮 sick of people to blame her
@@hotmess9640 Exactly, everyone is assuming she’s the problem based on appearances. But if you knew them you’d know she was holding onto that toxic relationship for way too long. Probably worried about this exact outcome if she left. He was known to cheat on her and was apparently abusive too. Amber said on live that he tried to take her with him and threatened her life. He actually called her when he did it, he was determined to make her feel guilty and that’s incredibly manipulative. Now she has thousands of people on social media making her out to be the bad guy.
I DO NOT and will NEVER understand why people feel like all their intimate and private lives belong online !!! And I always tell people that you have to love you more than anyone else. May the young king RIH .
For everyone that is assuming that he took his life over her, quit that! You don’t know what else he was dealing with! You don’t know if he was suicided. You don’t know what someone is going thru. My brother unexpectedly took his life. An hr after ordering car parts on Amazon. He wasn’t himself at all. So pls stop assuming unless he wrote a note saying that’s why he did it. He had a mental disability. Everyone has a breaking point but that point differs from one to another. One person may crash out and start burning ppl. One may take his life. One may just run away and start a new life.
thank you for putting this video together with so much grace and compassion for him and those who misses him most. including his girlfriend. The way you started the video, with their voices and orienting us the viewers toward their love (instead of some inflammatory strategy, where we for ex. collectively decide that the GF was evil..) is also offering a lot of dignity to them. Thank you for not centering the blame-game despite the fact that OBVIOUSLY, their relationship grew toxic. They are all of us, this is SO relatable. I am sending out prayers and light to them, and to you who is reading this. you are loved.
No Fr playing with his feeling and emotions thinking he wouldnt actually kill himself and he showed her what tf is was now she wants to cry about it girl pls you ain’t take him serious why he was here. They both seemed like the problem
My daughter is the only reason why i am still here. I can't leave that type of pain on her. Due to medical conditions i am unable to work. She is 20 and taken care of me. As a mother it breaks my heart. She should be out having fun. Recently found out, im the reason for a close friend not taking that step. People don't understand depression and often blame someone else or say things like "you put yourself in depression ". I guess i made myself become chronically ill. I guess people with cancer, MS, etc., made themselves ill too???!!!!. I pray for everyone who is struggling or loss lost someone due to depression. There is help. Therapy and medication helps. 💜❤
I’m not surprised that y’all are sitting up here blaming a woman for a man deciding to end his own life. You cannot force someone to seek help, they have to do it on their own. For your information, Lucas has been struggling with his mental health for a long time now. He even admitted to possibly being bipolar. Blaming Amber at a time like this is ridiculous like what if if she sees this? do y’all not have any concerns for her mental health. She’s probably going through it herself.
Rest in peace to Lucas Coly🕊❤🙏 Lord, please don't let my sons fall in love with women like her. Give them the strength and confidence to choose honest and respectful women because I can't choose for them. Tuck them tight beneath your wings here on earth, Lord.
You need to do a update video because you intentionally chose this narrative so ppl could bash this woman in all reality she was in a abusive relationship with this man who was constantly cheating on her. She has plenty of lives speaking on their relationship and how he was abusive to her on tiktok. Also there are screenshots of him threatening her the day before he passed. She even went live and said he chased her with a gun and how she fled her home because he threatened to unalive her.
RIP to this young man. He was fighting a silent battle that many weren't aware of and that breakup was likely his tipping point, not the cause. Many young men are struggling with depression. I pray that those struggling get the help they need! ❤
Facts, 10:06 girls be wanting you to “make enough” OR “please her”, so if you aint makin enough you GOTTA lay that smack down in the room or have sum they can “brag on”.. but most girls get hooked off the pipe game just bein honest not even money be keepin em holdin on it be the pipe
That’s normally how it goes the person that loves the least already won. It’s a runner chaser dynamic it’s unrequited love. If he treated her like shit and cheated on her every chance he got. She’d be crazy over him. She knew she had him. That’s where he fucked up. He could get badder females I’m not sure if she could do better than him though
I feel like she was into him until she got a lil fame. After that, she started acting like the main character when she’s only known because of him. Shawty played him good. She probably did like him but she loved the fame & popularity more. Smh, R.I.P!
Or hear me out... She fell outta love. I've acted exactly the way she did in the beginning and then started acting exactly how she was acting in that video with the towel headband on. There was no fame in my situation.
@@DimeCutieit doesn't take a lot for y'all to fall out of love anyway that's why the main point was that he ain't love himself enough to try and work with ppl who " fall out of love"
@@Chucky2ndson lol idk who “yall” is but I have a laundry list of why I fell out of love… we don’t know what the inside of their relationship looked like… YALL are sick.
He always looked depressed.... and she would talk so much about him to a bunch of strangers.... idc what y'all go through you never bash anybody in public like that it's messed up...
@@BadasskeeTV She’s rambling and talking to people online because she was scared due to the relationship being abusive and toxic. That was her outlet, she has fans that support her.
It’s crazy how all these people in the comments are bashing her. Y’all don’t know her or their true relationship! When someone is battling with their own demons they have to get real help. They were together for 8 years, people learn, grow, argue, disagree, go through seasons. Stop blaming her for what happened because yall don’t know
Thank you guys so much for the love and support that you guys have shown centered around my nephew’s passing. This is one pill that I will have a hard time swallowing! Lucas, Auntie will miss you so very much
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 it’s so crazy how life works. I used to listen to him heavy a few years ago. LITERALLY this week I decided to look him up and see wassup 😢 this is so terrible!!
I PRAY she ALWAYS remember him. I hope hes at peace. But you cant take your life. He could have found a better woman/wife if he only prayed and believed in Yah😢
A better wife to also threaten to kill and cheat on. Yeah he DEFINITELY is needed a better person and not to be better himself 🙄. Y’all Bible thumpers need more help than I think Yah can give u
He was a very very handsome young man 💜 Lord knows he made her look better than she did. I tell my 29yr old son all the time wen he go places try the spirit by the spirit, and I don't care how that girl look, if her spirit ain't right she ain't right.. Stop going by looks all the time because it gets u nowhere😒.. God bless this young man's family and R.I.P. TO HIM🙏🏾💜🙏🏾😢 God please reach out and touch anyone who is suffering in silence, bless them Lord Amen 🙌🏾💜🙌🏾
Right I hate this internet because people think they are so perfect everyone isn’t strong and can’t take pain like others I feel so bad he wasn’t strong enough to deal with his life situation this probably was his first love or she gave him all his attention and she was someone who he gave all his all too I’m so sorry he ended his life for what ever reason
Yes, but I think this was the culmination of whatever Else he was going thru....his eyes were so sad even when they were so called happy.....this internet has become a wicked place, and I hope people, young And old, jump on it less and live life in real time 😢❤🕊
People want to say it's over a female but what y'all don't realize is he had this on his mind for a long time. Learn about being suicidal and homicidal. That's something that you feel in your heart and mind for a long time.
I think you should do an update. That man was planning on killing her too. She had to run from him. And he sh*t him self while she was on the phone. I feel like she's a victim. This video is kind of blaming her for his crazy actions.
Wow, she was pretty horrible. I don’t even wanna blame her, but her vibe and personality was just not it. He was such a handsome young man. Could have done much better. She did not really love him. So sad. Rest in peace to him.
@@SheJustLeft When will y’all realize that appearances aren’t everything? So because he was handsome he had to be a good person and she had to be the problem? No, it was toxic on both sides and she’s not to blame for his mental health issues.
Bro could’ve gotten a way better girl if that was the case, I was in his shoes before when I lost my fiance I loved ts out that woman n thought she was my end all be all but god works in mysterious ways if u believe then boom I met my wife, now I’m thankful for losing her it’s never over bro I hate to see shit like this😢
Actively cheating, threatening to kill her , scaring her into leaving and then committing suicide while she's otp is so abusive and the ultimate manipulation.
Yes so sad . I’m glad that he didn’t take her out too.
@@Monique__91 Me too
I’m annoyed this wasn’t mentioned in the video, it’s only showing her in a bad light. But I just saw the threatening stories he left on IG. He originally wanted to do take her out and himself. When he couldn’t get her, he chose to do that to himself while she was on the phone. That’s evil af
@@chaichai012 took his life so he could traumatize her forever as punishment for leaving him smh
Wow and these comments are just on her head !!!! He is wrong
for the ones who bashing her, he had this girl hopping state to state bc he was trying to k!ll her, just the day before he did what he did to himself she ran away from him barefooted to LA, he was trying to kill her and couldn’t get to her so he did it to himself over the phone bc he knew that would eat her alive, that girl stuck with a lifetime of pain feeling like it’s her fault already and y’all bashing her? y’all don’t even know what’s going on that’s y y’all needa watch what y’all say.
💯🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
And believe a nigga will move you out of state to kill you. My ex threatened me with this so many times bc I found out he was gay and had a baby on me to try and cover it up to his family. He would joking say sometimes too he would take me outta town and to a lot and feed me out of an incubator…
I hope she is okay. He not only mentally abused her he has scared for life I hope she get counseling and make it through okay.
They mentally abused eacother! It goes both ways! Stop being a hypocrite
You was there ??? Should’ve recorded it y’all just believe anything lol
He come across real cool, focused and confident. Outside act smooth but inside he was vulnerable and confused
People focus more on the outside but not the inside of a person that’s why it’s so many suicides. A lot of people going through mental illness and using social media etc to fill a void for the time being. We need to talk about our problems but we get judged so often as males and females on this earth
It’s so sad…he was fine too …lord may his soul rest in peace
*Please stop blaming this woman for his suicide.* He took his life because he was clinically depressed. It is not rational to take your life because your relationship did not last. Please don’t push this woman into the same depression that we’ve lost him from already. Praying that Amber is mentally okay, whether she made mistakes in that relationship or not. *Remember it is not our place to judge, we don’t know these people and have no clue what they went through. We only see youtube, which is not real life.* God bless 💕
The only rational comment I've seen thus far
Well said
Only person to blame is the devil
Amen, well said.
She had no class. And can tell all about the money. I hope to never come across a female as such. FYI. A lottttt is around
It’s crazy how if she stayed and he killed them both like he threatened to, people would say it’s her fault for not leaving; but when he threatens her and she leaves, then she’s everything but a child of God🙄 Praying for his family as well as her mental health 🙏🏽🕊️
That part!
So sad. One thing that I have learned thru all my years is that things do get better. It just takes time, most of the time-but it gets better, and easier. RIP 🥀🕊️
Prayers for anyone struggling with mental distress everyday 🙏🏽
Nah this simp illness bruh. These men gotta MAN UP
Nah bruh had simp illness. Can’t respect it. Men gotta MAN UP
@TSixSix thank you. I needed this. Prayers to you as well 💙🙏🏽
@@PlatinumHustlefool shut up , how tf can be so remedial. everyone deals with Mental Health Differently
@@ThizzManBeatzMusic I said what I said
His eyes tell a story that it was way MORE than just HER...may he Rest in Paradise 😢💔🙏🏽❤️🕊🕊🕊
However, young love is both exciting and painful as you navigate life....I wish he would have held on to see how much better life would have become for him....😢😢😊😊❤❤❤
Bruh was on lightskin time and simped out
I lost a friend to suicide allegedly over a relationship, I never suspected he was in that kind of pain, you never know what people are going through.
@@PlatinumHustleI'm lightskin and gotta ride that witcha
@@PlatinumHustle yeah I don’t even know exactly if that’s even the case. The fact that you made that statement, you sound like a colorist.
@@onetwo12onetwo526 y’all must be children in the comment section. How slow y’all you
The way y’all are blaming this girl is disgraceful! YOU are responsible for YOU! No one can make you do anything. You choose what you crash out behind.
Sad to say but this is 100% true , even though everyone is right about her . Everybody is responsible for their own decisions
Exactly! He chose that for himself and I’m glad he couldn’t get to her. We are responsible for our own mental health. I have a 21 yr old son that’s in the army we deal with the same mental illness so I’m constantly checking on him I hate when ppl feel like they can’t make a permanent decision for other ppl.
Social media played a huge role in their relationship. That Little fame she had with him you can tell it went straight to her head and she became dominant over him but see yall women Don't look at the mental aspect of that. What she said about them working better as friends on a live video was disrespectful and it was the beginning of the end for them. I'm just pointing out her red flags because yall women like to stick by each other without holding any accountability.
@@jaykisuke3397 He should of broke up with her if she was moving funny and moved on with his life.
@@tsade6119people who are emotionally attached don’t really know any better if they never had guidance on relationships. Everyone on here don’t know buddy whole background to say what he could’ve done because what he had going on with himself was deeper than that relationship.
I don’t like how ppl are wrongfully blaming this girl for his mental health issues. I never heard of either of them but the narrative being pushed is wrong. None of us are obligated to be with anyone who no longer serves a purpose. That girl did nothing wrong, not even in these clips, if she wasn’t happy with him she just wasn’t, we don’t know the ins & outs. Life goes on, heart break happens to us all & we don’t jump off the deep end. I once had an ex who would threaten S every time I wanted to leave. I felt responsible for him so I stayed even though I wasn’t happy. I should’ve left the 1st time & if he went through with his threats, that’s on him not me. Not saying I didn’t care but Im entitled to be happy too. There was something deeper going on with this guy & it’s not her fault. I pray she doesn’t hold any guilt. May he finally RIP
Exactly, thank you! The unnecessary bashing of Amber needs to stop and may Lucas RIP🕊️
Because they are men. Men are violent and they feel empty for him, not her
Put your trust In God not humans 🙏 praying for the family .
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Yesssssssssss ❤️💪🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
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Amen
I was just telling my coworker that humans will fail and deceive you but God won’t. Always go to God in prayer in Jesus Christ name
THAT GIRL DIDN'T MAKE HIM HARM HIMSELF! He CLEARLY HAD DEEP EMOTIONAL ISSUES AND HE DIDN'T GET THERAPY OR MEDS
But she triggered him to that point and that’s that .
Remember this kid man It's crazy, We gotta learn there's a difference between perception and reality A lot of these kids need guidance someone to show them and talk to them about things when stuff gets hard, Condolences to his family and friends Start loving yourself put God first stop trying to please others and understand what self-love is🕊️💔
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Prayers and Love to the young lady Amber she's left with heartache and trauma for the rest of life, I would like to ask u guys stop bashing this young lady it's already hard that she's gotta deal with this now U got people being mean and crazy towards her like it's her fault Please I ask y'all to pray for this young lady Amber H God Bless u love Ask God to give you the strength and get u through this🙏🏿🫶🏿
P.S. Better Days to come 💕
Tbh, I been struggling with depression my whole life. And now I'm dealing with the worse break up of 20 yrs. Everyday I contemplate on deleting myself 😢. Its not easy when the memories fry your brain. I just pray I remain strong and make it through this.
Stay strong brother that rain don’t pour forever you determine how long it last life’s goes on God bless
You got this stay strong! ❤
Don't do it 😞❤ hold on please
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Can I tell you something.. that pain do be real, and the memories can be painful. But baby they did you a favor!! You might can’t see it now, but when we pray 🙏🏽 ain’t no telling how them blessings form. Meaning you live and learn.. You gotta learn you.. ❤ you got this.. ask God for peace, read psalms 🎉
Blaming her for his S** is insanity.
Very weird but yk men
It is im disgusted by this channel… this man just be spreading rumors and getting shit wrong for views
Yall can’t deny she is a weirdo tho
Right, it's so weird.
@@imsoy2k yet yall blame men for everything else
He didnt kill himself because of her, she was just his final straw damnn Lucas i feel you bro rip Lucas man🤦♂️
Literally the exact thing with my brother 😢
What happened between them two
@@Heyyyyyy870there’s always more to a story
That not true she just confirmed it on her story
She said he did it cuz they broke up, but then she said he’s manipulative for doing it
He definitely gave her a lot of confidence …that’s too bad he did not see his own worth
Right
Yes indeed..
Exactly. Doesn’t look like it was reciprocated. She probably was scared he’d leave her earlier in the relationship and made it a strategy to talk to him a certain way to “keep him humbled”. But with him already dealing with mental health issues, she might have created a monster she couldn’t handle.
She’s so pretty tho
Right
You could tell in most of the videos that something was going on with him.. his eyes just have a sad look 😢… rip young man🙏🏾💔🕊️
So true and we've seen her type. She didn't have a filter with matters of the heart. She emasculated him and didn't appear to like him, let alone love him. In spite of that, she is not to blame for his decision. He looked sad in every video. Hopefully, others struggling with those thoughts will stop suffering in silence and seek help.
@@PatriceDMVyou determined all that from this video? Grow up stupid
Right
R.I.P. to Lucas Coly, he had been battling with mental health for a minute💔
Well hooking up with a parasite made it 10 times worse. You can tell everything was all about her. The way she kept putting him down was not cool.
@@Quietaskept461you’re like 75
@@blackingingerpurrinwith no sense. 😂
Older women or men are still concerned about the younger generation. IJS
Years he has been battling . There wuz pain in most of his songs & struggles
Lucas had BPD and Amber is what is called the favorite person. You can look up how the relationship between a person with BPD and their favorite person can often have extremely horrible endings. The person with BPD can genuinely believe that they literally cannot live without their favorite person. I hope that Lucas rests in peace and I’m wishing lots of healing to Amber and his family.
This is why I’m raising my sons in the word & in church! This generation is so lost ! Turn to God when you feel NUMB! He’s the way , not unaliving yourself! That’s the trick of the enemy to gain your soul …..not worth it. RIP to him , Idk who he is but I’ve been seeing his face & story everywhere. 🙏🏽
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Good for you WATCH OUT WHO THEY’RE Associating with YOU DO REALIZE SOME EVIL ONES ⬆️IN DEM CHURCHES MASQUERADING AS DISCIPLES😮
This don’t make a difference people turn to God everyday and their cry’s are unheard pray until they hoarse and nothing changes believing in God is not a cure for everything if that’s the case there would not be any problems in this world at all
@@BillieJean2.0 proud of you but just make sure they aren’t in an environment opposed to what you doing 👍
THAT CAR SCENE WAS AWKWARD AS HELL AND YOU CAN TELL SHORTY GOT CAUGHT UP IN THE CLOUT RIP TO THAT YOUNG MAN🙏🏾
@@Britany_Monroehe never was gonna pick you dead or alive
@@Britany_Monroe if your that grown then act your age, your right he just passed so why do you think it’s okay to come at his ex girlfriend who expressed how he cheated on her & was a controlling narcissist everyday for 8 years you also teared down her looks but called him a cutie. Depression doesn’t care if your cute or not it will take you regardless
@@Britany_Monroegirl do you not know he was abusive? Throwing rocks at her car cheating on her the whole time a nigga that’s a cutie like you said is rarely faithful
@@Naeyolagirl stfu that girl is chattin I’m every live and video she was the controlling one and
Narcissist usually try to make play the victim role . She was the one doing to much in every video poking her butt out talking nasty just doing unnecessary shit that boy was laid back and always look sad you just sound dumb nobody gaf about that bitch she was for the money and it’s not hard to see
@@Naeyolawas you a really fan, you subscribed to there of and watched every video like me ? Oh ok . Stfu
This generation needs true leadership and guidance… stay off the World Wide Web and get themselves right with self and god ❤ When your young & trying to keep up this website image equates to unnecessary toxicity…. Just be yourself I see so many of these incidents with these young people. Not a good look at all…
My daughter is 16 with no social media I refuse to let her be dumb and let the internet lower her self esteem if she doesn’t have certain things if she does have social media it’s hidden
@mybopdiff3rent This mf from a country they can't get no internet....And their just running their mouth asl as you raise them right nothing can get in their way. Try teaching discipline it goes a very long way.
Can’t lead em they think they know it all. Young boy just popped his mother 4x in the head in Chicago. They are way different
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@@Straightbuttazgood for you
Watch her friends 👍
And her teachers 😢
I don't trust anyone who talks with their hands. I despise it!! The breakup may have been the final straw but the sadness in his eyes shows his struggle with mental health. Very sad.
You can tell that she thought it was all about her. I wonder did she even check on his mental smh
Then you must hate entire countries due to it being a cultural thing
@@missdeeMUA1 Ma ' I think we can definitely say no. I'm in the industry & I hate to say it she was getting passed about like the magazine black tail ' in the county jail. No self respect ' & there were plenty of beautiful & classy girls' who wanted him.❤❤ sending love & healing to his family. My brother went the same way ' another 🌟🌟🌟 in Jesus's arms❤
@@missdeeMUA1nobody is responsible for your mental health but you.
@@tabathajohnson8888 I'm speaking on having went through depression off and on for several years. I promise having at least one person or thing around to keep me going really helps. I would just hope that she was there for him considering it was said that he was struggling mentally already
Look at bro eyes and how he sounds ... It's sad someone can be In your face sleep in your bed and don't even care to realize the pain you going thru sick
im with you. His pain is obvious
And she is just yapping like a guppy while he's obviously going through something. You can clearly see it. I think it's that "we work better as friends"😢 is what got him.
It's called SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY!
@@blaqsuga1and her tooting her ssa up, etc. for the ex position.
I watched this video two days ago & felt for him, but after learning more abt him threatening to unalive her & himself at the same time. & then doing it to himself while they were on the phone together I take my feeling back. He was toxic too & this video made it seem like he was a victim. He’s horrible too
She gave bugga suga n-e ways. I just wish he was strong enough to realize its more love out there beyond loving someone so strong. U will find love again. I wish he knew he deserved much better. This is sad.
This is the thirstiest I have ever seen these comments. HE IS NOT PICKING YALL EVEN IF HE WAS HERE!
@@steveurkel9097it gets worse 😭 I’m flabbergasted reading these comments. Lord. Bless their hearts.
When friendzoning someone goes wrong. Her acting like the main character is a massive red flag. He must didn't have any real friends
Exactly 🤨
FACTS! SOMETIMES IT'S WHEN THEY MOVE ON...
SHE COULD STILL BE TALKING TO HIM WHILE WITH THE NEW DUDE...
PEEP HER ATTITUDE... RUN FROM A WOMAN THAT SHOWED THOSE SIGNS... THEY WILL LEAVE
@@blackgold4291 pathetic
Yall BM blaming her. Hilarious😂😂😂😂😂😂 typical
Get a life… some incels
She was very dismissive of what he had to say and often talked over him or brushed whatever he said off as if she didnt want to hear it. I've dealt w women like this and what I can say the best thing he could've done was to leave her alone early, she didn't respect him. And as men we pride ourselves a lot on how much and who gives us respect.
I get you might not know of them like that but this was done in poor taste by the underlying insinuating she led him to do it by mistreating him/not being invested. Amber and Lucas were VERY toxic. I had to unfollow Amber years ago because she became extremely bitter and all her content was about Lucas cheating on her and girls playing with her about it. THAT’S what you are REALLY seeing! A scorned woman! They’ve been off and on for a while. Neither one had friends like that, they lived together and always in each other’s face. It’s unfortunate Lucas did that and I really hate that he did but the break up was needed. It should’ve been happened. I hate this for them and I could not imagine how she feels because atp.. she did not do anything wrong by attempting to break up for good. Lucas decision was his decision and his alone because he for sure played apart in their separation. RIP to him and prayers for his family and Amber ❤
I feel the same exact way. This video was done in very poor taste and extremely disrespectful while misleading the viewers. If you push out content, you need to research the story you're reporting on. The majority of these comments blamed this young lady for his actions because she chose to walk away from a toxic situation.
Thank you for better explaining their dynamic!
this is the best comment! should be pinned
This needs to be pinned bcs the pick mes are taking over the comment section rn
The Most High is near the broken hearted! So many people are fighting mental health issues please don't add to it. Lift them don't dismiss them. Amber seems to like playing with his feelings and embarrassing him online. You can tell he really loved her. Rest in paradise Lucas Coly 😢 My condolences to his family and may she have the strength to endure his S after there separation 🙏🏼😇❤
He was FINE AS HELL! RIP
Girl lmfaoo
Remind me of a new generation Prince. Especially his eyes.
THATS WHAT I BEEN HOLLERING THE ENTIRE BEGINNING OF THIS VIDEO !!! Like DAMNNNNNnnn!!!!!! FINE AFFFF!!!!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Dittoooo!!! Truth be told she wasn’t even all that at least not compared to him… and that’s coming from someone who’s a whole lesbian. You can tell he poured so much into her and their relationship while she seemed extremely callous, nonchalant and apathetic 🤷🏽♀️😢
@@Kayla_Kizzlenot your grown ass blaming her because he's fine...no normal functioning person would kill themselves... U shoulda been there so he could take u with him. Thirsting over an abusive man is insane 😂😂😂😂 you fckn females bro
Naw I'm not gonn lie, I've been hurt so bad ,heartbroken where I didn't wanna live, BUT I'd NEVER take my life. The pain is bad but mannn this is so sad.R.i.p 🕊
Me too. This comment is 🎯💯
We are all made up differently. Some people’s pain starts from childhood and accumulates with each hurtful experience. Every experience with pain adds to the last and they cannot find happiness outside the sorrow no matter how much or how hard they try. I am so sorry for this young man and pray he is now at peace. 🕊️
True, i had alot happen to me as a kid growin up in multiple foster homes, i coulda took myself too, but the lord say when your parents abandon you he will take you up and God done bless me with much and he also took away and its only by christ im alive today praise god
@@DoloMKE414Amen🤲🏽
@@DoloMKE414 I am so happy to hear that you have been blessed and in a better place! May God continue to protect and comfort you!🫶🏽
@@lanairyn 💛
@@lasond2471 🤍
That’s wrong to put that on her. We don’t know what other problems this man was going through and how y’all know putting stories out like this won’t affect her mental health and have her do something?? Then ppl leaving nasty comments about her like they know them and they relationship. Y’all wrong asf and ignorant asf in these comments
Exactly 💯
RUclips and all these “guidelines” is truly starting to sicken me…drag queens and 🌈 activity directed at children is Aokay but reporting on a story and just using words to describe what happened is a strike-able offense…you can’t even say 🩸 or show it but you can talk about alleged “gender affirming care for children” all day everyday with no consequences…
Crazy fr
@@Anointed4Dis shows what direction this administration is trying to push America in they’re feminizing us making us so soft and acting like we should care about EVERYONES feelings while our adversaries are raising warriors who could care less about our feelings…🤦🏽♂️ if this generation isn’t saved the next generation of America will be destroyed by our adversaries that this administration seems to support from Iran to China
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glad im not the only one aware of the agenda
Yea RUclips ain't shit they ain't right RUclips is the feds y'all
Dude had so much potential some ppl aren’t good for your health she definitely was no help god bless the young man 🙏🏽
She was too extra and self centered. He built her confidence by even dealing with her. I’m sorry he didn’t see his worth here on Earth.
This comment is disgusting 🤢
@@justkeepitanonymous419 Its the truth she treated him like SHIT!!!!!
@@justkeepitanonymous419 Go throw up!!!!
It’s obvious you knew nothing about their relationship. You need to seek help. He wouldn’t have picked you if he was still walking this earth. Relax.
@@jeanasmith6283he’s a grown ass man if she so called treated him like shit he could’ve BEEN left they been together forever, she ain’t holding no gun to his head to make him stay you sound STUPID
She took his little light and dimmed it rest in peace, brother
That's what 304s do smh sad R I P young man
Y’all sound dumb as hell
Really how so? What videos of there’s you watched and saw that. Why has making statements and don’t know what tf you’re talking about become so popular. Also you zesty titry boys need to man up too damn emotional. Where yo daddy. Took his light you sound sweet af. My son caught his girl getting smashed. Simply left and don’t look back. I told him he don’t see but that 304 did him a favor.Year later prettier girl she has her own everything two jobs baby on the way. Helped him when the union went on strike . He a prize . But we taught him . that . And his parents should have too✌🏾
How you let someone else dim your light. This zesty emotional look on you men is disturbing
@@nunga9803and wreak nuccas let them . Foh
He Should Of Left Her Where He Found her! She Wasn't Worth It!😮
He wasn’t either tbh. Yall don’t know the fully story.
@BlackRose-yp4bl right
I always thought she wasn’t pretty
She don’t even seem pure in heart or in soul. These women are terrible & im saying that as a damn woman smh
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How you know she don’t seem cool over the internet 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♂️
@@dreadheadshan8346... I wonder how she feel knowing that he has passed on I'm praying that he has made it to the Astral City in God Almighty name
Yall don’t know shit lol he was a cheater and abuser. It’s not a red flag to self delete after a break up to you?
@@dreadheadshan8346 they prob was talkin abt that lil 30 second clip where she was like she wouldn’t check in on him etc if he left her but idk
Men🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ god and your purpose should be number one..RIP to this young man 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾
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Na fr this comment thr realist
Amen🙏
That’s coly damn I used too listen too him back in like 2014/15 🥺 RIP man
Sorry but she was annoying and extra af and not even cute fr.. i hope he didnt do anything to himself over tht goofy broad . This is sad
Exactly cause he could’ve done WAAY better.
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My brain turns off while she talks
Nah she was a bad bitch you guys got me FUCKED UP!
She does need that makeup tho
She’s so annoying she acted like she run the relationship you can tell him his eyes he was going through a lot she only cared about herself he actually wanted real love it’s so sad mental health is something we have to talk about more RIP💔💔💔💔
She was doing too much.
1min into the video and she definitely seems like the type to be extra with everything. From hand/head movements to exaggerated stories
Self centered narcissist. She got too big bc of him. I pray dudes always treat her the way she treated him
Hell yeah
To damn much
@@Peach-e5dThe way she treated him? They treated each other terribly and he was known to cheat on her often. The relationship was toxic on both sides but y’all are only blaming her why?
@@KayTalkNYC thanks for the insight. I didn't know that. Okay. Have a great day
I’m not trying to even be rude but, your girl was giving straight up annoying vibes, like an unhappy child that can’t be pleased. Fellas please leave these chicks alone when they’re all about the internet and followers. This is getting ridiculous out here 💯 RIP young brother but you went out sad because life is unfair but it’s precious 💯
Lowkey mad he did that over a stupid female. If he never met her he'd maybe still be with us. Be careful who you give access to you.
@@CleafKnowsVLOGS_nl You are right. Not everyone deserves access to us.
it can get so bad. I did the same shit. still so happy im here.
You know what’s sad. The majority of male suicide is due to a love lost. Or relationship issues. The other very small portion is money issues. 9times out of 10 if a man does that it’s over a female. How unfortunate when there are so many beautiful women in this world that would love him. How unfortunate to make such a permanent decision over a temporary issue. May he rest in peace…. How sad.
Yea I was thinking the same thing… she came into his life n threw him all off 😢
@@oggualafeinI am happy you are still here too. Time brings change and clarity. I pray the best for you!🙏🏾
Young people breaking up do hurt when you are young , but I promise you that it’s not the end of the World. Somebody better will come along and you forget about the person who broke your heart existed!!! In life you have to get hurt and go through stressful things to built your character . Please do not crash out of ANYONE EVER! This is so sad😢
Lucas literally displays how pretty privilege isn’t everything. Pretty people have struggles too. Stop feeling like looking good makes your life perfect, it doesn’t.
after him cheating so much she went cold SHE DID NOT kill him and she got away he threatened to off her too
Thank youu! Like people are so blind
Young Kings, we must keep God first and never fall out about no Woman 👩🏾 gotta stay strong 💪🏾
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Amen
Y'all aren't Kings and y'all 🔫 each other for way less so dying over a woman is an upgrade 😂
All she saw was dolla signs and he was looking for love. This is truly sad this young man had so much more life to live. & she’s probably laid up with the next ninja right now😩 rest easy young man🤍🕊️🤍 & condolences to the family 🙏🏾
They were on and off for over 8 years...
Why do people always think the worst of others
She was around him just for the money, she basically said that every time she opened her mouth, she took over all the vidoes and stuff they did. I'm sorry Lucas couldn't see this, but the next n1NJah she be laid up with is gonna dog tf outta her. It's karma.
Yall dudes be so unhinged like she wasn’t with him for a reason but I guess it would be better to you if he unalived both of them… BLK men are draining blame women for everything I’m happy she is free from this guy who couldn’t let go
You need to get a life and stop making up narratives about people you don't know
Girl hush, your a pick me and don't know shi!
Sad story. Dillyn troy talked to him the night before and Lucas had explained how his girl cheated. Was talking with dillyn this morning and he’s also heartbroken. I have a few unreleased tracks from Lucas and dillyn that we worked on last few years. Lucas was definitely a talent that will be missed 🕊️🕊️🕊️
I can absolutely say love hurts. I once laid in my bed 4 days straight without eating or getting out of bed other than to take a tinkle. I remember feeling like I wish to never wake up....i got better. That was almost 10 years ago. I never let my heart get that bad over anyone anymore. Work on your self love everyday people and no one can hurt you. Rest in Peace to this handsome young man that shouldve been a star❤
She was facinated by the idea of being with him she wasn't in love with him
@@yawngaming4188 She was fascinated for 8yrs? Y’all don’t know anything about this relationship but want to comment on it.
@@KayTalkNYC people be married for 30 years and that don’t make them happy people comment on love but don’t know what’s the basis
@@yawngaming4188 And you’re commenting on whether or not she loves this man when you don’t know her or him. Make it make sense.
@@KayTalkNYC and your commenting on something I said on the internet that I didn’t address you in but yet your talking and addressing me like you know them I’m pretty sure you don’t so your doing the same thing I am (voicing your opinion)so you make it make since to me?!?!!?
@@yawngaming4188 I didn’t comment or address them like I know them. I said they’ve been together for 8yrs and that’s a fact not an opinion. You on the other made an entire analysis of her and her emotions (with no evidence) like you know her when you don’t. Nice try but we’re not doing the same thing.
This video hit so close to home I couldn't even finish it.😢😢😢 Young Men, know your worth. Please don't let these versions of women trick you off ya game. If you already got mental health issues, know/learn your triggers & set boundaries and let them be known. Love you first. Its easy for me (a boy mom) to say at 49, but its never too late to say it.
Didn’t mention any of the abuse he put her through, we need to stop painting people who died with just their best and be honesty so the people who are around aren’t blamed for how they reacted to their own actions. It’s absolutely unhinged to cheat on someone for years, put your hands on them, verbally abuse them,threaten to self delete if they leave you, and then when they finally pick themselves after giving you their entire 20s in a stagnant abusive relationship you actually follow through on your threats. Amber looks like the bad guy but if you actually watch their lives you can tell she was hanging onto something that died a long time ago, he even admits himself he has anger issues in one of his last TikTok’s. Being outwardly attractive can only help you so much, when you’re dealing with demons an average layman can’t remove them. You need serious help or you’ll just bring everyone else down with you
That’s what those men do from that demographic… he can abuse you for as long as he wants and you can’t leave or he’s gonna unalive himself 😂 ummm do it sir … tf I look like a punching bag or else 🤡🤷🏾♀️🤮 sick of people to blame her
@@hotmess9640 Exactly, everyone is assuming she’s the problem based on appearances. But if you knew them you’d know she was holding onto that toxic relationship for way too long. Probably worried about this exact outcome if she left. He was known to cheat on her and was apparently abusive too. Amber said on live that he tried to take her with him and threatened her life. He actually called her when he did it, he was determined to make her feel guilty and that’s incredibly manipulative. Now she has thousands of people on social media making her out to be the bad guy.
I DO NOT and will NEVER understand why people feel like all their intimate and private lives belong online !!!
And I always tell people that you have to love you more than anyone else.
May the young king RIH .
For everyone that is assuming that he took his life over her, quit that! You don’t know what else he was dealing with! You don’t know if he was suicided. You don’t know what someone is going thru. My brother unexpectedly took his life. An hr after ordering car parts on Amazon. He wasn’t himself at all. So pls stop assuming unless he wrote a note saying that’s why he did it. He had a mental disability. Everyone has a breaking point but that point differs from one to another. One person may crash out and start burning ppl. One may take his life. One may just run away and start a new life.
thank you for putting this video together with so much grace and compassion for him and those who misses him most. including his girlfriend. The way you started the video, with their voices and orienting us the viewers toward their love (instead of some inflammatory strategy, where we for ex. collectively decide that the GF was evil..) is also offering a lot of dignity to them. Thank you for not centering the blame-game despite the fact that OBVIOUSLY, their relationship grew toxic. They are all of us, this is SO relatable. I am sending out prayers and light to them, and to you who is reading this. you are loved.
The way he uppd her confidence Babyyy- this situation will always humble her. Sorry for the family loss, God gained an angel for sure❤.
Amber had her in confidence. Why are you soo jealous?
SHE TALK TO DAMN MUCH. Everything was about her. Hell no.
Watching their interview about how they met was Cringey AF, both seemed phony and immature.
@@derricklangford4725 That was a cool/cute story. Stop hating!
Opposites attract. Tf
Exactly got fake written all over it there are 1000 women who look just like her and think just like her
It's seems like she played emotional games with him ,so sad 😔
Noooooo. They were both sooo toxic. Look up there live videos.
Another person being thirsty. It’s obvious you don’t know your history.
And did
No Fr playing with his feeling and emotions thinking he wouldnt actually kill himself and he showed her what tf is was now she wants to cry about it girl pls you ain’t take him serious why he was here. They both seemed like the problem
Rest in peace young man. Comfort to the family 🙏🏾🥀
She wasn't the 1 bruh . All these fine ass woman and you had the juice !!! Rip
My daughter is the only reason why i am still here. I can't leave that type of pain on her. Due to medical conditions i am unable to work. She is
20 and taken care of me. As a mother it breaks my heart. She should be out having fun. Recently found out, im the reason for a close friend not taking that step. People don't understand depression and often blame someone else or say things like "you put yourself in depression ". I guess i made myself become chronically ill. I guess people with cancer, MS, etc., made themselves ill too???!!!!. I pray for everyone who is struggling or loss lost someone due to depression. There is help. Therapy and medication helps. 💜❤
I’m not surprised that y’all are sitting up here blaming a woman for a man deciding to end his own life. You cannot force someone to seek help, they have to do it on their own. For your information, Lucas has been struggling with his mental health for a long time now. He even admitted to possibly being bipolar. Blaming Amber at a time like this is ridiculous like what if if she sees this? do y’all not have any concerns for her mental health. She’s probably going through it herself.
Rest in peace to Lucas Coly🕊❤🙏 Lord, please don't let my sons fall in love with women like her. Give them the strength and confidence to choose honest and respectful women because I can't choose for them. Tuck them tight beneath your wings here on earth, Lord.
You need to do a update video because you intentionally chose this narrative so ppl could bash this woman in all reality she was in a abusive relationship with this man who was constantly cheating on her. She has plenty of lives speaking on their relationship and how he was abusive to her on tiktok. Also there are screenshots of him threatening her the day before he passed. She even went live and said he chased her with a gun and how she fled her home because he threatened to unalive her.
Yepppppp!!!!!! This man cheated and hit on her . But he completely negated that out like huh
The vid was definitely biased. Unless he makes an updated vid and correct himself, I'll be currently unsubscribed
@@BlackCatChillin I did as well.
@@BlackCatChillinalready did a while ago. This isn’t the first time he’s blatantly defended abusers. Glad others are starting to catch on
He isn’t going to
He was too weak minded you can tell he was just a soft hearted when it came to love.
He’s a cancer
Passed with a broken heart 💔 how sad very heart wrenching 🥺
She’s going to have to live with this for the rest of her life, God rest this young man’s soul 🙏🏾😢
Omg , i used to watch them all the time back in the day . Omgggg noooo . This is terrible . 😢😢😢😢 RIP Lucas. Hope you are at peace now😞🙏🏾
No that’s them!!! That’s the couple I remember when I was younger! They were together forever!!!! That’s crazy! Lucas was so in love with her
RIP to Lucas I hope bro find peace
Ain't no peace where he going
@@Southern_Grown_Organics how and who are you to make that judgment
Umm ppl who commits su*cid3 doesn’t make it to the pearly gates… Keep being blind!
@deanstory1459 the Bible makes that judgment. But alot of people like to change it to fit their beliefs
@@Southern_Grown_Organicsyou don’t know where tf he’s going i wish yall wasn’t so damn ignorant
RIP to this young man. He was fighting a silent battle that many weren't aware of and that breakup was likely his tipping point, not the cause. Many young men are struggling with depression. I pray that those struggling get the help they need! ❤
she did'nt look like nothing without makeup .
Exactly. He actually had bad taste for him to be such a nice lookin dude…
Just shows he wasn't shallow for going for looks only.
Word . He could’ve done way better I would’ve went and bagged a better hoe
I thought it was somebody else
A fuckin mess..... #catfish
These little boys need a man in their life seriously…..
I swear like where’s his dad who kills themselves over a single bitch like that’s weak as fuck 🤷🏾♂️ rest in peace fr though
The “men” have to actually give a damn first. Let’s start there sir. Can we?
Once a nut stops being just a nut to yall then it’ll all fall into place
The men are little boys too they all lost
BLK men need to stop abandonment their kids 😂🤷🏾♀️ always the common denominator in poverty and violence
Dayumn, that was tough to watch. U could tell that he was really into her and she wasn't that inti him. She was honest thought. RIP Lucas.
Facts, 10:06 girls be wanting you to “make enough” OR “please her”, so if you aint makin enough you GOTTA lay that smack down in the room or have sum they can “brag on”.. but most girls get hooked off the pipe game just bein honest not even money be keepin em holdin on it be the pipe
That’s normally how it goes the person that loves the least already won. It’s a runner chaser dynamic it’s unrequited love. If he treated her like shit and cheated on her every chance he got. She’d be crazy over him. She knew she had him. That’s where he fucked up. He could get badder females I’m not sure if she could do better than him though
I feel like she was into him until she got a lil fame. After that, she started acting like the main character when she’s only known because of him. Shawty played him good. She probably did like him but she loved the fame & popularity more. Smh, R.I.P!
Or hear me out... She fell outta love. I've acted exactly the way she did in the beginning and then started acting exactly how she was acting in that video with the towel headband on. There was no fame in my situation.
@@DimeCutieit doesn't take a lot for y'all to fall out of love anyway that's why the main point was that he ain't love himself enough to try and work with ppl who " fall out of love"
@@Chucky2ndson lol idk who “yall” is but I have a laundry list of why I fell out of love… we don’t know what the inside of their relationship looked like… YALL are sick.
@@DimeCutieso why tf entertain someone u don’t like lol
@@Chucky2ndsonHe literally cheated on her all the time.
He’s like.. he’s never “in the room” . She’s rambling talking mfs online. He sitting there wondering if his life is worth living smh
He always looked depressed.... and she would talk so much about him to a bunch of strangers.... idc what y'all go through you never bash anybody in public like that it's messed up...
@@BadasskeeTV She’s rambling and talking to people online because she was scared due to the relationship being abusive and toxic. That was her outlet, she has fans that support her.
It’s crazy how all these people in the comments are bashing her. Y’all don’t know her or their true relationship! When someone is battling with their own demons they have to get real help. They were together for 8 years, people learn, grow, argue, disagree, go through seasons. Stop blaming her for what happened because yall don’t know
Thank you guys so much for the love and support that you guys have shown centered around my nephew’s passing. This is one pill that I will have a hard time swallowing! Lucas, Auntie will miss you so very much
@@chaosndconversation8970 prayers going up for you and the family 🙏❤️🙏
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 it’s so crazy how life works. I used to listen to him heavy a few years ago. LITERALLY this week I decided to look him up and see wassup 😢 this is so terrible!!
I PRAY she ALWAYS remember him. I hope hes at peace. But you cant take your life. He could have found a better woman/wife if he only prayed and believed in Yah😢
O he at piece aight
A better wife to also threaten to kill and cheat on. Yeah he DEFINITELY is needed a better person and not to be better himself 🙄. Y’all Bible thumpers need more help than I think Yah can give u
She sound like she liked him because of his followers
Follower's, clout, money like most woman now a days there just tr**ps
Crazy taking your life doesn’t stop her from moving on 💯 life on earth is so precious I don’t know where everybody is rushing too 💯
Praying for this generation born & raised with the internet! We seeing the effects & for them… it’s not good! Praying for his family & friends 😞💔🙏🏾
He was a very very handsome young man 💜 Lord knows he made her look better than she did. I tell my 29yr old son all the time wen he go places try the spirit by the spirit, and I don't care how that girl look, if her spirit ain't right she ain't right.. Stop going by looks all the time because it gets u nowhere😒.. God bless this young man's family and R.I.P. TO HIM🙏🏾💜🙏🏾😢 God please reach out and touch anyone who is suffering in silence, bless them Lord Amen 🙌🏾💜🙌🏾
Right I hate this internet because people think they are so perfect everyone isn’t strong and can’t take pain like others I feel so bad he wasn’t strong enough to deal with his life situation this probably was his first love or she gave him all his attention and she was someone who he gave all his all too I’m so sorry he ended his life for what ever reason
Yes, but I think this was the culmination of whatever Else he was going thru....his eyes were so sad even when they were so called happy.....this internet has become a wicked place, and I hope people, young And old, jump on it less and live life in real time 😢❤🕊
#RIPLegend
People want to say it's over a female but what y'all don't realize is he had this on his mind for a long time. Learn about being suicidal and homicidal. That's something that you feel in your heart and mind for a long time.
She Was Just Chasing His Bag!😮 Should Of Never With Her! This Is Sick!😮
I think you should do an update. That man was planning on killing her too. She had to run from him. And he sh*t him self while she was on the phone. I feel like she's a victim. This video is kind of blaming her for his crazy actions.
And he did it her birthday month. And there were posts he made saying ain't no birthday idk family tv. There's more info out there now
Wow, she was pretty horrible. I don’t even wanna blame her, but her vibe and personality was just not it. He was such a handsome young man. Could have done much better. She did not really love him. So sad. Rest in peace to him.
@@SheJustLeft When will y’all realize that appearances aren’t everything? So because he was handsome he had to be a good person and she had to be the problem? No, it was toxic on both sides and she’s not to blame for his mental health issues.
delusional
She liked the sound of her own voice.....
Omg 😳 I loved them as a couple, I used to watch their RUclips. RIP 🙏🏽💖 Prayers to his family 🕊️
I cannot believe y’all are blaming her when he was clearly struggling with his mental health
Men suffer in silence. As a woman I try to learn everyday how to support my man. We must. We love you guys. We need you. RIP young one ❤
Bro could’ve gotten a way better girl if that was the case, I was in his shoes before when I lost my fiance I loved ts out that woman n thought she was my end all be all but god works in mysterious ways if u believe then boom I met my wife, now I’m thankful for losing her it’s never over bro I hate to see shit like this😢
God is great 🙏🏽
How'd you lose her?
@@DimeCutie she wanted to be poly & that’s not my cup of tea , no disrespect to their community tho💯
@@noCutz2024 I feel you 100% on that… blessings on your union!
@@noCutz2024With You And Another Man ?
People, YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND GOD IS THE GREATEST ❤️🙏